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134 – Giving and Receiving Feedback in Counselling Training

Counselling Tutor
Counselling Tutor
Episode • Dec 14, 2019 • 33m
Personal Limitations in Person-Centred Therapy - Theory in the Counselling Room













In episode 134 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, Ken Kelly and Rory Lees-Oakes talk about whether therapists as individuals may be the limiting factor in the person-centred approach. 'Check-In with CPCAB' then offers some tips for positively and constructively giving and receiving feedback in counselling training.



Last, Ken and Rory discuss the place of theory in the counselling room in different modalities - before making an exciting announcement that in January 2020, Counselling Tutor will be launching new products aimed at providing continuing professional development opportunities for qualified counsellors.







Personal Limitations in Person-Centred Therapy (starts at 1.40 mins)



Jeffrey Masson (a former psychoanalyst) is well known in the world of counselling and psychotherapy for his book Against Therapy (first published in 1988).



In this, he presents various arguments against different modalities of therapy, including the person-centred approach (in a chapter entitled 'The Problem with Benevolence').



Masson suggests that some counsellors put on the core conditions rather than these being a true way of being for them.



Indeed, the success of person-centred therapy does rely on the therapist truly believing in the process rather than seeing this as a technique to be applied in the therapy room alone.



In this sense, we as individuals may be the limiting factor in person-centred therapy, partly as some therapists find it harder to be congruent, empathic and non-judgemental than others.








The success of person-centred therapy does rely on the therapist truly believing in the process rather than seeing this as a technique to be applied in the therapy room alone.










Do come and join us on the Counselling Tutor Facebook page - you might like to tell us whether you think it's possible to be truly non-judgmental, for example.



You can also read a handout by Rory on the topic of criticisms of person-centred therapy. You can download this free of charge here, or access it through the Handouts Vault and Counselling Study Resource.







Check-In with CPCAB: Giving and Receiving Feedback in Counselling Training (starts at 9.25 mins)



Rory speaks to Heather Price (Senior Counselling Professional) at CPCAB (Counselling & Psychotherapy Central Awarding Body) about giving and receiving feedback in counselling training.



While feedback is essential in order to enable us to grow as professionals in the world of counselling and psychotherapy, it can feel difficult both to have to give and to receive this.



We might feel unqualified to give feedback - but do remember that you are just as qualified as any other member of your group.



Or our past experiences - especially in the world of education - might mean we associate receiving feedback with punishment and humiliation, meaning we are transferred back to the past emotionally when this occurs now.



This could also reflect on our provision of feedback to others, in that we might fear others feeling hurt by our comments.



Heather and Rory give a number of tips on how best to navigate these potential difficulties:








In short, do try to take a positive approach to feedback and to see this as constructive.



For more information about CPCAB, please see its website. CPCAB is the UK's only awarding body run by counsellors for counsellors.



Theory in the Counselling Room (starts at 22.05 mins)



In the final section of this week's Counselling Tutor Podcast, Ken and Rory explore how we can use theory to help develop and repair the therapeutic relationship.



They ask whether there is a place for theory in the therapy room, whether theory can get in the way of the relationship, and how to achieve the right balance between these key elements of therapy.



There is significant difference between modalities in how explicit practitioners make theory i...

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