Healing, Discernment, and Honesty: Difficult Questions About Suicide, Pleasure, and God's Voice
How can Christians wrestle faithfully with some of the toughest and most personal questions of faith? In this deeply vulnerable and wide-ranging episode, Mike and Andy tackle real questions from listeners, offering theological insight and pastoral care on topics often avoided in church discussions. From suicide and salvation to masturbation, from hearing God's voice to discerning deception, the conversation is raw, compassionate, and refreshingly honest.
If you've ever carried questions you were afraid to ask—about sexuality, divine guidance, or grief—this thought-provoking episode opens space for both truth and grace. Mike and Andy emphasize a Jesus-centered understanding of God's character and encourage spiritual maturity rooted in wisdom, community, and honest reflection.
Key Takeaways: • Suicide and Salvation – God’s judgment is not simplistic or transactional. Mike emphasizes that suicide is not the unpardonable sin and that the character of Jesus gives us reason to trust in a compassionate and redemptive God. • Hearing God’s Voice – God speaks, but learning to discern His voice requires deep immersion in the Gospels. Recognizing Jesus’s voice in scripture trains us to notice His voice elsewhere. • Masturbation and Morality – Pleasure isn’t inherently sinful, but the why and how matter. Mike explores the nuanced realities of solo sexuality, balancing grace with responsible reflection and spiritual formation. • Calling Out Deception – While warning others can be loving, it must be done with humility and only after first examining our own hearts. Community-based discernment leads to more truthful—and less judgmental—engagement. • The Importance of Community – Lifelong spiritual growth involves surrounding ourselves with trusted voices who can lovingly speak the hard truths we may not want to face.
Resources Mentioned: • Dallas Willard – "Hearing God: Developing a Conversational Relationship with God" • Gospel Accounts – Matthew, Mark, Luke, and John (for learning Jesus’s voice) • www.voxologypodcast.com – For more episodes and resources
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