Ok, Guys this week we are talking about what men need to stop doing to attract more women.
The Thanksgiving StoryThe biggest reason I did this show is that on Thanksgiving my mom got an unsolicited Dick pick from one of the guys she is talking to. how do I know? because I was looking at a picture my mom's suiter had sent earlier when he sent her an image of his morning wood.
This is something that seems to be running rampant. Women are complaining and men are winding why they aren't getting laid. This very reason is one of many reasons why men can't find a good woman to settle down with.
It is as if Men actually don't want women to sleep with them. They want to get their rocks off and offend women at the same time.
My Theory as to whySo why are men not finding as many women as they would like
I blame women's standardsWomen have dropped their standards. Now I am not talking about women who have unrealistic standards. You know those types that think that men should provide everything for them and they don't have to bring anything to the table. Not those women. I am talking about the average woman on the average dating app. These are the women who have dropped their standards.
They go along with thinking they need to sleep with the guys because that's how you attract a guy. No that is how you attract scummy guys and they are inadvertently creating more scummy men. Where are the guys of a standard like Cary Grant? Well, women's lack of standards has created men who don't have any standards.
I Blame men's standardsMen have stopped trying to impress women. Many of today's men don't dress up for dates. Many men don't go on dates. They sit around the house and complain that they don't go out. Are you being held hostage? No, You have to go out by yourself to find adventure.
There are too many nice guys running around. Yes, there are too many covert contracts creating, Scared of any emotional outburst type of nice guys running around society today. These men are the ones who are doing the drive-by crotch shots.
Let me help you out men who like to send out dick pics. You are presenting the most unflattering part of you to the woman. Just let it stay a mystery till she wants to see it.
Another problem with men's standards is that they don't want to have to work for the opportunity of sex. It is a numbers game where if you send enough pecker pics to enough women then you might get one to like it.
It is far easier to watch a porno clip than to actually go out and build up a rapport with a woman. Get to know her. Yeah it can be a bit uncomfortable and the process takes longer than the average pornhub clip, but the dividends are vastly immeasurable. You might actually get something wet if you take the time to get to know a woman. You might actually find a good woman who wants to spend their life with you if you stop acting like the average dude and start acting above average. Take pride in who you are and what you believe, and for god sake get rid of the nice guy's schtick! All of this is a form of buffering and numbing it is not living.
I blame dating appsDating apps are the joining of the low-standard women and the low-standard men and it just perpetuates the whole numbers game. If you want to find a better woman who is of a higher caliber then get off the dating apps and start finding real women in real life. Yeah, it's scary but it is a better adventure.
Do you want to get laid more?There are many different things men can do that will actually impress women so that they want to get naked for you. The Tactics aren't easy but they do pay off in the long run.
Start by dropping pornPorn is an easy get your rocks off ploy. You don't have to talk to girls to see them naked. You don't have to do any of the uncomfortable social interactions. You just have to go to a website and Poof wa la boobs! Yet because of porn you have been rewiring your brain to be aroused by images, not by naked women.
This is a rising problem in Millenial men this group is having more issues with ED than even older men. Men at that age should be walking around with permaboner yet because they watch so much porn they can't even rise to the occasion.
If you are struggling with dropping the porn habit Matt Sinkovitz can help you out. If you don't want him then I can help you out.
Stop chocking the ChickenThis goes with the porn problem but also if you stop masturbating as much you will allow for more testosterone to be produced and you will actually have a greater drive to meet more women.
Start Upping your Dress gameIf you wear basketball shorts, a tee shirt, and flip-flops then up your game by one step. Wear some dress shorts, a polo shirt, and some tennis shoes. Upping your uniform is one of the best ways to improve your chances of meeting and attracting women to you. All because you decided to dress just a little better
Start treating women with respectThat means stop flopping your giggle stick out at the slightest cause. Get to know her. Talk to her. have a deep conversation. You have to connect with a woman for her to want to be naked for you. Showing her your willy ain't going to do it. In fact, she will probably add clothes each time you show her your dingaling.
Stop Being a Nice GuyThis is going to be the hardest for many men. Being a nice guy is all they know and they are afraid that nobody will like them if they stop being a nice guy. The problem these men don't realize is that nobody likes them because they are nice guys. Once nice guys start allowing themselves to have their own thoughts and ideas, the act of sharing them with other folks is where they start developing better connections.
You have to take those scary chances of having someone not agree with you to step out of your comfort zone. Also, understand that just because someone doesn't agree with your thoughts doesn't mean they don't like you. It means they have a different thought.
Work on your 4 pillars of a Relaxed MaleWork on the 4 pillars of a Relaxed Male. This will help you become more confident and stronger in who you are. Your body gets into shape so you look better to women. Your testosterone increases. You find your purpose and a woman loves a man who has a mission in life. Then the fact that you have a group of masculine men around to give you regular infusions of masculinity will set you up for dating success.
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