Scripture References:
2 Corinthians 4:16-5:5; Romans 8:18-25; Hebrews 12:1-2; Hebrews 13:12-14
Intro:
Thinking about dying often involves wishing we could die "well"—wise, loving, at peace. But life often brings unexpected pain and suffering that challenges this ideal. Pain is inevitable ("Everybody hurts"). Resisting it hinders growth, while embracing it with the right perspective can transform us. How can an eternal view reframe our pain?
Key Points:
Pain as Education & Experience: Suffering teaches lessons nothing else can – about our weakness, fragility, self-absorption, and our desperate need for God. It cultivates humility and gratitude. Resisting pain means ignoring its lessons. Enduring pain allows us to "write it on our resume," gaining experience and skills for comforting others.
Perspective is Crucial: How we frame pain determines our experience. Paul, facing immense suffering, maintained hope by adopting an eternal perspective. Three biblical images help us reframe:
Tents (2 Cor 5:1): This life/body is temporary, like a camping tent—preparation, not the destination. Hardship is difficulty on the journey home, preventing us from demanding ultimate comfort now.
Childbearing (Rom 8:22-23): Present suffering has purpose, like labor leading to birth. It's productive groaning producing an eternal glory that will far outweigh the current pain. Joy is coming.
The Cross (Heb 12:2): When pain makes God seem unfair, absent, or silent, the Cross reveals His character: He is just, brings deliverance through disappointment, achieves victory through death, is present even when silent, and entered into suffering Himself. The Cross proves His love and care.
Enduring Requires Community (Pain Partners): We aren't meant to suffer alone. Jesus took His closest friends to Gethsemane. We need "pain partners"—trusted individuals who can walk with us, offer support, and help maintain perspective. Isolation in pain is dangerous. Jesus is the ultimate, ever-present partner.
Suffering is Nuanced: The Bible doesn't offer simple formulas for pain. It explores mystery/sovereignty (Job), encourages honest lament (Psalms), acknowledges consequences (Proverbs), and validates despair (Ecclesiastes). God meets us differently in different types of suffering.
Conclusion:
Pain is an unavoidable part of growth and life in a fallen world. Instead of resisting or numbing it, we're called to embrace it with an eternal perspective. Viewing life as temporary (tent), pain as purposeful (childbearing), and God's character through the Cross enables endurance. Fixing our eyes on Jesus and finding "pain partners" helps us persevere with hope.
Call to Action:
Stop resisting the pain in your life. Ask God what lessons He wants to teach you through it. Intentionally reframe your suffering using the images of tents, childbearing, and the cross. Fix your eyes on Jesus and eternal hope. Reach out to trusted friends—become pain partners for each other. Come to communion, remembering Christ’s suffering and finding strength in Him.
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