Friend of Trace – Gary Chapman, Ph.D.

Gary Chapman, Ph.D. is an author, speaker, and counselor who has a passion for people to help them form lasting relationships.  He is a well-known marriage counselor and director of marriage seminars.  The 5 Love Languages® is one of Dr. Chapman’s most popular titles with millions of copies sold and on the  New York Times bestsellers list since 2007.  Find all of Dr. Chapman’s resources at his Store.

Dr. Chapman has been directly involved in real-life family counseling since the beginning of his ministry years, and his nationally-syndicated radio programs air nationally on Moody Radio Network and over 400 affiliate stations.  His Podcasts are Building Relationships & A Love Language Minute.

Dr. Chapman holds B.A. and M.A. degrees in anthropology from Wheaton College and Wake Forest University, respectively. He received his Ph.D. degree from Southwestern Baptist Theological Seminary and has taken postgraduate work at the University of North Carolina and Duke University.

Dr. Chapman and his wife, Karolyn, have been married for more than 45 years, reside in North Carolina and have two grown children.

How to Help Your Child Feel Loved 

Trace Embry, Michelle Hill and our friend Dr. Gary Chapman, author of The Five Love Languages of Children, discuss how parents can foster emotional wellbeing in their children by understanding their love languages.  He explains that each child has a primary love language, which could be physical touch, words of affirmation, acts of service, receiving gifts, or quality time.

Parents can identify their child’s love language by observing their behavior, listening to their complaints, and noting their requests.  Dr. Chapman emphasizes that while all love languages are important, speaking the child’s primary love language is crucial for them to feel loved.  He also suggests that discipline should be wrapped in the child’s love language to ensure fairness and understanding.

Dr. Chapman shares a sad story of a young man who never really knew his father.  This was shared with Dr. Chapman by the young man at his father’s graveside service.  Therefore leaving Dr. Chapman sad knowing it was now too late for that father to know his child’s love language.

Episode Highlights:

• Can you name the 5 Love Languages? 
• Ask yourself, “Do your children feel loved?”
• How to identify your child’s love language.
• When is it NOT a good time to offer advice to your child?
• Why is it so important to spend time with your children?
• What are Primary and Secondary love languages?

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