One of the benefits of understanding the discussion on values is that it helps you appreciate others. When someone makes a decision that is different than yours, they're just living by what they think is important. That’s how two people can get the same information yet come to a different conclusion. That's more than okay. I hope it allows you to have compassion for others. They struggle with the same thing you do. There’s constant angst when you're not living in alignment with what your heart truly values. As we grow up, we tend to adopt the values of our family, culture, society or any organizations we belong to. Adulting means knowing who you are and what you stand for when none of those things are around you.