If you have a partner whose primary love language is physical touch, a lack of initiation in physical affection and sexual intimacy can be a make or break issue. They will start to doubt themselves and wonder what’s wrong, questioning whether you still find them attractive. They will take it personally. I knew a women whose primary love language was physical touch. Her husband had a different love language and a low libido. Talk about trouble in paradise. He didn’t initiate in the bedroom because she would come home from work and talk about how hard she worked and tired she was. He never wanted her to feel put out even further by making sexual advances. This would leave her feeling routinely rejected. So she would pick fights which he would resolve by giving her space. The opposite of what she really needed. Which was to be held with the comfort that he never wanted to let her go.