Well, apart from the title ... which I believe was chosen for pure marketing reasons, I could relate to every part of this book, and I was happy knowing that I'm doing it right. The book gives women reassurance that they don't need to be anything but themselves, it seeks to empower women and free them from the enslavement they put themselves under when they choose to be committed in a relationship and totally disregard their own needs. It's a book about self respect and how to maintain it during your relationship. It's a personal favorite if you ask me. While reading it, I was like "bitchy and I know it" and that means and only means that you cannot tolerate mistreatment, you have a life, you can depend on yourself to be happy and most of all, you're financially independent and thus fun to be with.