Why would someone willingly step into an uncomfortable conversation, especially with someone who’s hurt them deeply? In this episode of Uncomfy, author and meaningful work researcher Justin Jones-Fosu shares the moving story of confronting his absentee father—not to accuse, but to understand. What followed changed his identity, his peace of mind, and even his connection to his heritage.

Justin’s book, I Respectfully Disagree: How to Have Difficult Conversations in a Divided World — https://workmeaningful.com/books/
Justin’s company, Work. Meaningful. — https://workmeaningful.com/

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Episode transcript - https://uncomfypodcastbyu.blogspot.com/2025/05/i-forgave-my-absent-father-heres-why.html

CHAPTERS
00:00 Introduction
00:45 The Impact of Avoidance
01:33 A Personal Story: Confronting My Father
03:59 The Concept of 'Taking the Exit'
05:24 The Journey to Understanding and Forgiveness
11:45 The Circles of Grace Challenge
15:06 Conclusion and Call to Action