#126: This Sh*t Is Hard: Is Recovery Even Worth It?
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In this special bonus episode, Abbie and her husband talk through a listener question about healing and recovery, and whether all the hardship -- including divesting from diet culture in a world that is still very much steeped in diet culture -- is even worth it. Tune in as they discuss the similarities between eating disorder and addiction recovery journeys, the importance of community in both, and why we need to sit in the sucky parts before we can experience the benefits of choosing to let our coping mechanisms go.
Here is the listener question that was submitted (originally on Patreon):
Hi Abbie,
I’ve been recovering from decades of dieting and disordered eating. I’m completely on board with doing this work for myself, for my kids. I recognize now - many thanks to you - how much of my life has been wasted on trying to control my body. But I'm struggling, and many days I have these thoughts of: is this harder than just continuing to diet and restrict? I'm uncomfortable, I feel stressed and anxious, and it’s hard to cope with the body changes. I just feel defeated in many ways. I know I don’t want to go back, but at the same time, healing is feeling so hard. I am hoping you’ll have some advice for where to go from here. Your podcast has meant so much to me and my daughter. Thank you.
Alex
Some of the topics covered include:
Short term versus long term discomfort
Insights from sobriety
Validating our pain and struggles
Understanding what's beneath our coping
The fears and anxieties that lead us to rely on behaviors that ultimately do not serve us
How we can feel more assured in the short-term that our perseverance will be worth it
The ways we seek love and belonging
And so much more!
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