What you want is not in your comfort zone otherwise you’d already have it. Your impact in the world is largely going to depend on your ability to sit with your own discomfort. I want you to consider the feelings that really make you uncomfortable and treat them like new kids in a classroom. Say hello vulnerability, hello sadness, hello anger, hello boredom, hello shame, hello grief, hello fear, hello overwhelm, hello shyness, hello self-judgment. Instead of defaulting to defensive patterns like lashing out, ignoring, escaping or perhaps medicating your classmates. You can just say, “I don't know why you're here. You make me very uncomfortable. I don't have to like you but we can sit together while I learn.” These will be your companions on the path to getting what you want. By treating them kindly you're treating yourself kindly.