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Almost Adulting with Violet Benson
Almost Adulting with Violet Benson
Episode • Feb 6, 2024 • 33m

Hey Besties! Today, Violetta dives into Chapter 5: Jumping Through Hoops Like a Circus Poodle from “Why Men Love B*tches” by Sherry Argov. Ever wondered why most women crave something from a man that they need to give themselves or where the key is keeping your rhythm intact to avoid creating a void in your life? Learn why lowering yourself to fit his criteria lowers the relationship value and why being the "nice girl" might not always be in your best interest.  


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What to Listen For:

  • 00:00 Intro
  • 02:40 Chapter 5: Jumping Through Hoops Like a Circus Poodle
  • 05:40 Attraction Principle #3: If you allow your rhythm to be interrupted, you’ll create a void
  • 07:08 Attraction Principle #44: Most women are starving to receive something from a man that they need to give to themselves
  • 08:20 Attraction Principle #45: A woman looks more secure for a man when he can’t pull her away from her life
  • 09:11 Attraction Principle #46: Once she lowers herself to fit his criteria, she has lowered the standard of that relationship 
  • 15:50 Attraction Principle #48: You have to keep from being sucked down into a quicksand
  • 18:34 Attraction Principle #50: The nice girl gives herself away too much to please the man
  • 19:41 Attraction Principle #51: The relationship might not be right for you if your jumping through hoops


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