On this episode we will cover love in relationships.

We learn that love has no expectation however fear is what makes us have expectations. With fear we do things because we have to and expect others will to do the same. This is why fear hurts and love doesn’t.

When we love, we love because we want to... not because we have to.
When we don’t expect things to happen we are happier because we know that whatever the outcome.....we will be ok.

Anger, sadness, jealousy come from fear.

On the other hand, love is generous and gives freely, which gives fruit to a wonderful relationship.

Fear is full of conditions. We often hear “I will love you if......and if you don’t fit this image I want you to be I can’t love you”. If a person is not what you are looking for, don’t try to change them, you either accept them or you don’t.
But that is not love.

Learn how we can love others unconditionally, respect them, take control over our own happiness and let the love be our guide to a healthy relationship.

When we become aware that happiness never comes from outside of us and we stop making others responsible for our happiness we will find true happiness.

Episode materials: The Mastery of love by don Miguel Ruiz
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