S6E9 Holier Than Thou, Pt. 1 of 3

In this heartfelt episode of Ex-Wives Undercover, Abby opens up about her whirlwind romance with Bobby—from their spontaneous elopement in Reno to the deeply personal challenges that unfolded behind closed doors.

Abby’s story is more than just a love tale—it's a powerful exploration of womanhood, identity, and growth. Together, we unpack the often-silenced experiences of postpartum depression, mental health stigma in religious communities, and the slow, painful unraveling of manipulation and financial control in abusive dynamics.

Abby’s journey reminds us of the strength it takes to reclaim our voices and the healing that comes from sharing our truth.

🎧 What You'll Hear in This Episode:

• The fast-paced romance that led to a spontaneous elopement
• How love bombing and religious expectations shaped Abby's early marriage
• The subtle beginnings of manipulation and financial control in abusive relationships
• Why leaving a toxic relationship is more complex than it seems

💡 Key Takeaways:

• Love can be intoxicating—but fast starts often come with red flags.
• Faith and tradition can influence personal decisions in ways that blur boundaries.
• Abuse often hides behind control, manipulation, and the pressure to maintain appearances.
• It’s okay to seek help—whether through therapy, medication, or trusted support systems.

✨ A Quote to Remember:

"You can love someone and still lose yourself in the process—healing begins when you start choosing you." — Abby

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