What is the difference between self-pity, shame, and self-compassion? What is the difference between self-compassion and self-indulgence?
It is a basic human condition to feel sorry for ourselves occasionally. We have all been there. I don't know about you, but I have had many a good cry feeling sorry for myself.
But It is the action you take after that that really matters. This episode will discuss this and the steps to escape the self-pity spiral.
We discuss why we fall into self-pity, the causes of shame, and how to use self-compassion to break the cycle.
You will learn two types of self-compassion, how they are useful, and 10 valuable tips to change your relationship to shame and self-pity.
Learn how to
Change your self-talk
Recognize self-pity and shame
Learn what to do to change your perspective
Feel it in your body
Label shame when it happens
Take a self-compassion break
Write down the misdeeds of others (that you have internalized) and recognize them as other people's issues, not your shame.
Label the feelings you have when self-pity or shame happen
Be compassionate to others
Learn compassion language and use it in your internal dialog
Realize you are human; as such, you make mistakes; we all do. That is one of the things that connects us to each other, not separates us from one another.
Practice self-compassion
Realize we are all seeking love and acceptance
Forgiveness Episode: https://youtu.be/n8I_IepFUss
music @TrackTribe
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