In 1 Corinthians 16:13-14, Paul exhorts the believers to stay awake, stand firm in faith, be brave, be strong, and to do everything in love—letting it be their greatest aim. What does that mean for our relationships? Sometimes we struggle to love as Jesus did and as Paul encouraged simply because we don’t fully understand the concepts involved in loving relationships. Is loving about the warm, fuzzy feelings we have toward those to whom we’re attracted? What is love and is it more than a feeling? This message puts forth the questions that we need to ask ourselves during the upcoming church-wide study, “40 Days of Love” that begins on January 31.