When I first decided that the podcast would bring on audience callers as guests, I was hoping my friend Alanah Dixon would apply. She is in a lesbian marriage and is currently the mother of 2 children, both of whom she carried (one came from her egg and the other from her wife's). Join us for a heartfelt conversation as she shares her poignant moments of self-discovery and her liberating experience of coming out as a lesbian, juxtaposed against her earlier relationships with men. Our discussion also embraces the warm acceptance of her family and the joyous serendipity of meeting her wife, marking the beginning of her loving, five-year union.

We’ll talk about the complex path to parenthood faced by same-sex couples, tackling everything from the emotional to the logistical. We discuss the initial decisions, such as choosing who will carry the child, and the emotional intricacies of using donor sperm, including an amusing story about the unconventional funding of their sperm purchase. The conversation also highlights the vital support and shared responsibilities during the postpartum period, the non-biological partner's nurturing role, and the significant emotional and financial investment in starting a family.

We’ll dive into the nuanced landscape of LGBTQ+ parenting and family dynamics, where the ordinary challenges of raising children meet the unique hurdles faced by gay parents. We talk about the societal assumptions, the heartfelt moments of inclusion, and the quest for diverse, accepting communities for our children. So tune in for an episode that celebrates love, intention, and the true essence of family beyond biological ties.

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Watch this episode in video form on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLjmevEcbh5h5FEX0pazPEtN86t7eb2OgX

To apply to be a guest on the show, visit luciefink.com/apply and send us your story. 

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