Ep.151 I Deciding You’re Surrounded by Idiots: How to Avoid Unnecessary Conflict with Thomas Erikson
Why can’t everyone operate the way I do? Why can’t they get it right? It’s not that hard…right?
Thomas Erikson, a human behaviorist, teaches self-awareness skills that help leaders navigate relationships with people who drive them crazy sometimes. Today, he shares his approach to dismantling useless conflicts in everyday life.
KEY TOPICS
What to do when you feel like you’re surrounded by idiots at work and in life.
How to stop judging people based on their actions, and better understand their intentions.
Tips for working alongside people whose personality clashes with yours.
How to stop wasting money, time, and energy on employee incentives that don’t make an impact.
CHAPTERS
00:00 Mission of Decidedly
00:53 Recognizing Your Personality Type
5:58 Introducing Thomas Erikson
07:27 Being Surrounded by Idiots
11:49 Building Your Self-Awareness
15:18 A Breakdown of Personality Types
21:26 Internal Drivers of Your Decisions
22:52 Employee Motivation
29:52 Working with Family Members
32:06 Your Business’s Unified Mission
37:40 Channeling Your Inner Competitor
38:56 Solving for Your Weak Spots
43:01 Identifying Your “Why”
47:38 The Mexican Fisherman Story
49:49 Family Goals and Legacy
59:51 Decision-Making Tip for Business Owners
1:02:23 Key Takeaways
1:03:46 Producer Closing
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Website: https://www.surroundedbyidiots.com/en/
Books: https://www.surroundedbyidiots.com/en/books/
Instagram: @thomaseriksonwriter
Thomas Erikson is a behaviorist and the bestselling author of the Surrounded By series about human behaviors. The series has been translated into close to 60 languages and has sold over 8 million copies.
His mission is to make people’s lives easier by making them more aware of themselves and helping them better understand what it takes to achieve the best possible communication.
He is a highly sought-after public speaker, giving 120 keynote speeches annually on topics such as human behaviors, self-awareness, narcissism, and leadership.
Thomas is a mentor to top-level executives and entrepreneurs all over Europe. He lives by the simple quote: You can’t change somebody else, but you can change yourself.
Thomas was writing for twenty years before finally getting published. Being an author was his dream, so he never gave up. Instead, he tested new ideas, tweaked his writing style, learned new skills, asked professionals, and worked from 03.00 in the morning for years. No one really believed in his writing ambitions, so he had to believe in himself.
He lives on the countryside in Sweden with his wife Christina, Sweden’s biggest romance author. He runs a family business that provides online courses and master classes on all the topics he writes about in his books.