I just got back from a trip to Minnesota my friends. We're considering it as a place to relocate to so it was a scouting mission. I flew up to finally see the place in person but more importantly to FEEL the place. That distinction is a tricky one. I kept wanting to make sure I got to all the places during my short visit; the neighborhoods, the parks, the little main streets etc. to somehow collect all the facts, figures, details and distill them down into a big shiny answer. But that's not how we find what's true. We have to feel it out which takes a lot more courage because it takes us slowing way down to a snails pace...which I'll be honest often feels like dying. I don't want to slow down. I want to make a list and check it three times, weigh the pros and cons and pull the trigger. But I think what Glennon Doyle says in her latest book "Untamed" is true, the real answers feel warm, they feel melty, big, expansive and free, they feel like love. There's an old adage that we're either coming from a place of love or fear. The goal is to launch ourselves from love whenever we can and not everyday love but divine, deep, big magic, god, source, what's true love. That love will lead us to the next right thing every damn time. To find it, as Martha Beck says, we have to slow waaayyyy down, go into our bodies and see when we ask a question; does the answer feel warm? "Slow down sister, just slow down" this is what I kept repeating to myself when I was on my trip. Minnesota was 15 degrees but once I stopped rushing around and tuned in I can tell you it felt warm as hell in my heart.