What are your parenting values? Are you united in your parenting? Are differing parenting styles a point of conflict in your marriage? For years it was one of our biggest conflicts, but in the last few years we have both been willing to be humble and teachable and learn new patterns and behaviors to bring more harmony and connection in our home. Kids do well when they can and behavior is communication are two of our biggest aha's with our learning.
The Whole-Brain Child by Dan Siegel
No Drama Discipline by Dan Siegel
The Explosive Child by Dr. Ross Greene