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Lessons Learned: An Unexpected Fall, A Wedding, and Finding Joy in 2023

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Message In The Middle
Episode • Dec 30, 2023 • 17m

Welcome to the final episode of 2023 on Message in the Middle with your host, Marianne.  In this episode, Marianne she received, and the primary take aways from 2023.  

Segment 1: The Travel Philosophy Dilemma

  • Recap of the Mid-October episode, "Travel Philosophy: To Plan or Not to Plan."
  • Marianne's historical inclination towards meticulous travel planning.
  • Internal struggle over allocating time for detailed planning vs using time on high value tasks.

Segment 2: Embracing Change and Unpredictability

  • Decision to find a balance between old and new self.
  • Allocating time for essential planning and embracing spontaneity for the rest.
  • Unforeseen accident days before the trip - a fall resulting in a fractured eye orbit and arm.
  • Despite challenges, the decision to proceed with the trip with a relaxed mindset.

Segment 3: Lessons Learned in 2023

  1. Time Allocation and Values:
    • The importance of allocating time in alignment with one's values.
    • Reflecting on how time is spent and whether it aligns with personal priorities.
  2. Reality vs Expectations:
    • Living in the present to avoid disappointment.
    • The benefits of a loose framework over rigid planning.
    • Reinforcement that handling unexpected challenges is part of the journey.
  3. Asking for Help:
    • The strength in seeking assistance and not being afraid to ask for help.
    • Personal experiences of asking for help and the positive responses received.
  4. Finding Fun and Joy:
    • The focus on bringing more fun into life in 2023.
    • Unconventional sources of joy and laughter, such as a humorous moment with husband and nylons.
    • The "secret" to finding joy lies in letting one's guard down, gratitude, and being present.


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