Why Millennials Are Leaving and Loving the Church: A Raw Conversation on Authenticity and Weakness (Why We’re Leaving the Church Series, Part 1)
How can the church reclaim its prophetic voice and connect deeply in a generation disillusioned by performance, image, and control? That’s the question Mike Erre, Andy, and special guest Izzy Ray tackle in this candid and heartfelt conversation. Prompted by John Pavlovitz’s article “Dear Church, Here’s Why People Are Really Leaving You,” the trio explores what it means to be authentic in ecclesial spaces, challenge the production model of church gatherings, and create communities that honor real brokenness, humility, and beauty.
This isn’t a church-bashing episode—it’s a love letter to the mission of Jesus and an invitation to witness how weakness might actually be the church’s superpower.
Key Takeaways: • Rejection of Performance-Based Church – Why young adults, like Izzy, are exhausted by overproduced experiences and long for authenticity instead of scripted perfection. • The Loss of Mystery – How rigid control and stage-managed services strip away the wonder and spirit-led surprise that gathering in Jesus’s name should embody. • Weakness as Qualification – Revisiting Paul's declaration that “power is made perfect in weakness,” and why church leaders may actually be most qualified to lead when limping. • Burnout in the Pulpit – The systemic failure of celebrity leadership models, why burnout is common, and what rest and restoration should actually look like. • Language That Connects – Replacing insider churchy language with meaningful, plain communication that resonates with real-life people. • Beyond the Building – Challenging the "come and consume" model of church and reimagining church gatherings as platforms for love, justice, and community outside the walls.
Guest Highlight: Izzy Ray – Worship artist, pastor, and Vox community member representing the generational voice of an authentic hunger for Jesus. Izzy opens up about her lived experience with church culture, what she longs for in Christian gatherings, and why vulnerability and mystery matter more than polish and hype.
Resources Mentioned: • Article: “Dear Church, Here’s Why People Are Really Leaving You” by John Pavlovitz – johnpavlovitz.com • Book: Power, Weakness, and the Tabernacling of God by Marva J. Dawn – [Link] • Podcast: Vox Community podcast (for teachings + scripture series) – Vox Community on iTunes • Izzy Ray music – izzyray.com
Join us as we embrace the beauty of the messy middle, where Jesus shows up not in sameness, but in brokenness, realness, and hope. Got thoughts or your own story about leaving or staying in church? Email us at hello@voxpodcast.com – we want to hear from you!
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