Ash and Moya face up to all the ways their smartphone has warped their minds. Plus, advice for a trans woman struggling to interact with the world in the wake of the Supreme Court ruling.

Come and see If I Speak LIVE at EartH in London on 21st May! Final tickets are available now from Dice.

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Music by Matt Huxley.