It should be clear that Franklin is not intending that we become a quiet person, as there are certainly times to speak up. 

It is speaking with a purpose that distinguishes this virtue and avoiding those situations when you would be drawn into inane, unimportant, or trivial discussions. This way, you benefit from your listening, and others benefit from your speaking.

Read the transcript for Benjamin Franklin's 13 Virtues - Silence

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