This week I have a special guest who has taken the time to find out how to get the best out of an awful situation. Andy Heller had the rug ripped out from under him after being married for 8 years and being the father of 2 kids. What did Andy do? Did he delve into shame and Scarcity? He may have tried but he didn't in the end. He actually started studying what was going on and taking notes.
He also started going to a therapist and taking the advice they gave. From here, Andy started talking to other therapists Divorce attorneys, counselors, Mediators, and more. With all the knowledge Andy Heller gathered together he wrote a book about all that he discovered. It laid out tips and tricks as to how you can actually go through a divorce and keep your ex as a friend. You can co-parent with a lot less resistance from the other side. This book is simply amazing in how it helps men to take the higher ground.
TipsGet a Special Master or SMA- This is like a special arbitrator and is a truly amazing tip that I had never heard of.
Compromise often. The law of reciprocity is always in effect.
Take Your Time - Too many bad decisions were made in a rush.
According to the hostile spouse, you are the unreasonable one.
ResourcesBook: Take The High Road: Divorce with Compassion for Yourself and Your Family