People Pleasing and Lying

If you are in a relationship and feeling as if, in order to do be connected to them, you have to lie to yourself or to them, this episode is for you!

Wait a minute? You're a people pleaser. Not a liar! You're doing it for them!

There's no way they go together, do they? Dear warrior, true friendships and relationships are based on acceptance of and for the other person. mutuality. None of this over functioning, under functioning of codependency...that comes from fear! 

Ask yourself this question; do I believe that being a good daughter, a good friend, a good mom, a good sister, a good wife requires me to lie? Well duh susie, no. Okay next question: how often do you not speak up because you think you know how the other person will react or because you think your needs or desires will impact the situation?
Warrior! Listen in. This episode will be so helpful for you!
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