Ep 197 Interview Sessions with Dr. Gordon Neufeld | Hold On To Your Kids
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Episode: Ep 197 Interview Sessions with Dr. Gordon Neufeld | Hold On To Your Kids
Pub date: 2022-11-02
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On episode 197 I am joined by Dr. Gordon Neufeld, author of the best selling book Hold on to Your Kids, co-authored with Dr. Gabor Maté.
Before he retired, Dr. Gordon Neufeld had accumulated more than 40 years of experience as a clinical psychologist with children and youth and those responsible for them. A foremost authority on child development, Dr. Neufeld continues to be an international speaker, a best-selling author (Hold On to Your Kids) and a leading interpreter of the developmental paradigm.
Dr. Neufeld has a widespread reputation for making sense of complex problems and for opening doors for change. While formerly involved in university teaching and private practice, he has devoted the best part of the last two decades to creating courses for parents, teachers and helping professionals.
These courses are offered primarily through the Neufeld Institute – an online educational institute and world-wide charitable organization devoted to applying developmental science to the task of raising children.
Dr. Neufeld’s life's work has been to help adults provide the conditions for children to flourish. He is a father of five and a grandfather to seven.
In this episode you will hear:
03:00 why parents are struggling
07:30 we are being educated out of our instincts
09:30 the universal force of attachment
12:30 peer orientation vs. the village of attachment
17:00 why it is so difficult for step-parents
20:00 our roles as fathers
21:30 a child’s natural desire to be good versus counter-will
23:00 true power isn’t something we draw attention to
26:30 we are the answer
28:30 universal principles of attachment
30:00 the paradox of independence
35:00 it is always too early to retire
39:00 who am I the same as and the importance of family values
42:30 pick your battles
45:00 the damage caused by sending them to their room
48:00 hold on to your kids
50:30 the impact of parents that are always on their phones
53:30 you’re not going to feel on the battlefield, but home is where we get our hearts back
57:30 vulnerability is the enemy and the essence of the bully
59:00 Dr. Gordon’s Heartprint
1:02:00 the most important belief to have as a parent
Connect with Dr. Gordon Neufeld
Website: https://neufeldinstitute.org/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/NeufeldInstitute
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/user/neufeldmedia
Connect with Always Better than Yesterday
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Thank you to our friends at Elevate OM, proud supporters of the Always Better than Yesterday Interview Sessions.
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Episode: Ep 197 Interview Sessions with Dr. Gordon Neufeld | Hold On To Your Kids
Pub date: 2022-11-02
Join our mail list here for exclusive content here.
Sign up for our January Good Fathers group here; https://abty.co.uk/good-fathers
On episode 197 I am joined by Dr. Gordon Neufeld, author of the best selling book Hold on to Your Kids, co-authored with Dr. Gabor Maté.
Before he retired, Dr. Gordon Neufeld had accumulated more than 40 years of experience as a clinical psychologist with children and youth and those responsible for them. A foremost authority on child development, Dr. Neufeld continues to be an international speaker, a best-selling author (Hold On to Your Kids) and a leading interpreter of the developmental paradigm.
Dr. Neufeld has a widespread reputation for making sense of complex problems and for opening doors for change. While formerly involved in university teaching and private practice, he has devoted the best part of the last two decades to creating courses for parents, teachers and helping professionals.
These courses are offered primarily through the Neufeld Institute – an online educational institute and world-wide charitable organization devoted to applying developmental science to the task of raising children.
Dr. Neufeld’s life's work has been to help adults provide the conditions for children to flourish. He is a father of five and a grandfather to seven.
In this episode you will hear:
03:00 why parents are struggling
07:30 we are being educated out of our instincts
09:30 the universal force of attachment
12:30 peer orientation vs. the village of attachment
17:00 why it is so difficult for step-parents
20:00 our roles as fathers
21:30 a child’s natural desire to be good versus counter-will
23:00 true power isn’t something we draw attention to
26:30 we are the answer
28:30 universal principles of attachment
30:00 the paradox of independence
35:00 it is always too early to retire
39:00 who am I the same as and the importance of family values
42:30 pick your battles
45:00 the damage caused by sending them to their room
48:00 hold on to your kids
50:30 the impact of parents that are always on their phones
53:30 you’re not going to feel on the battlefield, but home is where we get our hearts back
57:30 vulnerability is the enemy and the essence of the bully
59:00 Dr. Gordon’s Heartprint
1:02:00 the most important belief to have as a parent
Connect with Dr. Gordon Neufeld
Website: https://neufeldinstitute.org/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/NeufeldInstitute
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/user/neufeldmedia
Connect with Always Better than Yesterday
Website: https://abty.co.uk/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alwaysbetterthanyesterdayuk/
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/abty/
Facebook Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/weareabty
Thank you to our friends at Elevate OM, proud supporters of the Always Better than Yesterday Interview Sessions.
Head to https://www.elevateom.com/ for Online Marketing & Web Design services that are affordable, bespoke & awesome.
podcast@abty.co.uk
The podcast and artwork embedded on this page are from Ryan Hartley, which is the property of its owner and not affiliated with or endorsed by Listen Notes, Inc.
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