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Song of Songs: Dark Yet Lovely

Radiant Church Visalia
Radiant Church Visalia
Episode • Jun 3, 2019 • 1h 1m

Scripture References: Song of Songs 1:2-8, John 15:4-5, 1 Corinthians 15:10, Hebrews 3:15, Ephesians 3:14-19, 2 Samuel 11-12, Proverbs 4:23, Matthew 25:1-13, 1 John 1:8-9, Romans 6:11-13, 2 Corinthians 3:18.

Intro:

  • Review of Song of Songs 1:2-4: initial awakening, intimacy, and ministry.
  • Transition to Song of Songs 1:5-8: a season of darkness and loveliness.
  • The common journey: initial zeal, followed by burnout and self-awareness of sin.

Key Points:

  • Darkness and Loveliness (Song of Songs 1:5-6):
    • The bride's confession: "I am very dark, but lovely."
    • Acknowledging sin and failure, yet holding onto identity in Christ.
    • "My mother's sons were angry with me": taking on too many ministry assignments.
    • "My own vineyard I have not kept": neglecting personal intimacy with Jesus.
    • Progression: neglect, burnout, emotional unrest, spiritual dullness, isolation, insulation, scandalous sin.
    • David's example: neglecting God's call leading to sin and tragedy (2 Samuel 11-12).
  • Guarding the Heart (Proverbs 4:23):
    • The importance of protecting our hearts from sin and distraction.
    • Practical ways to guard the heart: discerning priorities, managing time, avoiding harmful influences, seeking accountability.
    • The parable of the bridesmaids (Matthew 25:1-13): prioritizing intimacy (oil) over ministry (lamps).
  • Repentance and Identity:
    • The balance: acknowledging sin (darkness) and embracing our identity in Christ (loveliness).
    • 1 John 1:8-9: the importance of confession and repentance.
    • Romans 6:11-13: counting ourselves dead to sin and alive to God.
    • Presenting ourselves to God: embracing our identity as beloved children.
  • Seeking the Shepherd (Song of Songs 1:7-8):
    • The bride's cry for help: "Tell me, you whom my soul loves."
    • Seeking rest and nourishment from Jesus, the Good Shepherd.
    • Jesus' gentle response: "If you do not know, O most beautiful of women."
    • Practical instruction: follow the flock (Scripture and community) and pasture the young goats (fulfill responsibilities).
    • Importance of submission to godly leaders.
  • Affirmation and Prophecy:
    • Jesus' affirmation: "You are lovely."
    • Prophesying strength and beauty: calling out the gold within us.
    • God's promise of character transformation (Song of Songs 1:11).
  • Transition to Romance:
    • The next season: a deepening of intimacy and a renewed focus on personal relationship with Jesus.
    • Finding security in God's love.

Conclusion:

  • Seasons of darkness are a normal part of the journey.
  • Balancing confession and identity is crucial.
  • Jesus restores us through grace, practical instruction, and affirmation.
  • Intimacy with Jesus leads to transformation and security.

Call to Action:

  • Reflect on your own journey and identify areas of neglect.
  • Guard your heart through practical disciplines and accountability.
  • Embrace your identity in Christ and reject shame.
  • Seek Jesus as your Shepherd and receive His gentle guidance.
  • Follow His instruction: stay in the Word, community, and fulfill your responsibilities.
  • Ask God for a specific prophetic word for your life.

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