My BEST Advice for Engaged and Newlyweds
After an incredibly busy May filled with family celebrations including our 23rd wedding anniversary, my son's wedding, my daughter's high school graduation, and a week-long houseboat trip to Lake Powell, I'm reflecting on valuable relationship lessons that emerged during this special time.
• Shared a powerful relationship skill called the "I notice" technique that creates open communication without triggering defensiveness
• Explained how to properly use this approach by describing only what a security camera would see, not interpretations or judgments
• Reflected on early marriage challenges and how different schedules and communication styles created difficulties
• Advocated for premarital or newlywed counseling even when relationships seem perfect
• Discussed the benefits of establishing a relationship with a therapist before problems arise
• Offered insight into how Relational Life Therapy helps identify relationship patterns and triggering mechanisms
• Emphasized the importance of learning repair techniques and effective communication skills early
For a limited time, I'm offering engaged and newlywed couples a special package of three coaching sessions for the price of one. This can be purchased as a gift for couples you know or for your own relationship. Visit monicatanner.com and click on "work with me" to schedule a consultation, or email moni@monicatanner.com for more information.