Irv Gotti, CEO and Co-founder of Murder Inc records, has been heavily criticized for speaking about the singer Ashanti a great deal in public recently.   The reason Dr Alicia and I decided to talk about this issue is the following;   1) Is there a double standard when it comes to kissing and telling?  There are a long list of reality shows that encourage women to speak directly about the men they used to sleep with.   2) What are the financial reasons behind reflecting on these relationships?  Irv mentioned recently that he is being paid to do a documentary about Murder Inc and that it wouldn't make sense not to talk about Ashanti, one of the biggest artists in the history of the label.   3) How appropriate is it to kiss and tell in your own relationships?  I say that it's tacky and corny, but there are others who do not agree.    You can listen to the Pillow Talk podcast by visiting http://BoyceAndAliciaTV.com.