In this episode I talk with Alison Armstrong about some major differences between men and women and how to use them to your advantage in your relationship. While I get that the labels of masculine and feminine or man/woman can be incredibly narrow, they are very effective for teaching basic relationship principles. Notice how Alison does this with some age old “labels” to help you see where you naturally  orient and where your partner does. Also, notice when and where you feel you are at your “best” in your relationship. Check it! SHOWNOTES What caused Alison to become hungry to learn about men? [5:30] Why do woman throw their husbands under the bus? [9:50] The metaphor that helps explain why men and women see each other so differently. [12:05] What one factor determines when a man or woman will act at his or her best. [16:30] The best time to talk about a challenge in your relationship. [17:45] How being more accurate about time can help women connect better with their man. [24:05] The ideal perspective to thrive in changing life circumstances. [26:15] The missing piece that women don’t get about a partner who is on his purpose. [32:45] What is a “no-blow” date. [35:00]