This week’s episode is a solo show!

 Takeaways from the show:

• Perception matters
• The goal of behavior is to find and feel a sense of belonging and significance
• Iceberg metaphor
• Mistaken goals: Undue attention
• Connection vs. attention
• Tune into how your kid’s behavior makes you feel
• Parents contribute to beliefs kids have about connection
• The coded message behind annoying behavior is notice me and involve me usefully
• Redirect by involving your kids in a useful task
• Say what you will do
• Avoid special services
• Plan 1 on 1 time with your kids
• Involve your kids in creating routines

Eps 261 | Downloadable Mistaken Goal Chart 

See you next week!! :)

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