Send us a textThis episode is all over the place because we're all over the place.And that's because we have ADHD. Yep, both of us.Because of it, we're easily distracted, disorganized, and prone to screwing up. But there's one way it affects us differently. Being so unfocused messes with my arousal quite a bit. For Jake, it's the opposite. This week, we talk about the ways ADHD affects our sex life, being dopamine junkies, and how to fight the odds and get horny anyway.We also mention day sex, killing our succulents, that time Jake went so hard he ended up with a swollen dick, and some very successful double penetration.Unfortunately, we still don't have our mixer so the sound kind of sucks on this one. We hope to be crisp and clear again soon!If you want to get your bondage on, you need the Sportsheets Under the Bed Restraint System. It changed the game for us and it's one of our favorite sex accessories. You can get it from Betty's Toy Box and use the code LOVEEMMA to save 10% on your entire order!Relevant links: What It's Like to Have Sex With Someone Who Has ADHDOur Super Safe Doorknobs (Twitter)No Tits, Just Cupcake (Instagram)***Want to become one of our Friends With Benefits? Check out the Pillow Talk Patreon for bonus episodes and exclusive updates!***If listening to this inspired you to get sexy, check out some of my affiliate links. These are sites and services that I've used and personally recommend. If you click on one and sign up or make a purchase, I earn a small commission (at no additional cost to you) and you will be supporting the podcast:Nubiles Porn (for super playful, upbeat, mostly taboo porn)Girlsway (for the absolute best in girl-on-girl porn)Lovense (for long-distance sex toys that will help you tease, arouse, and get her off from anywhere) ***I write about sex and relationships here: https://medium.com/@emma.austin.writerAnd on my personal blog: https://www.loveemmaaustin.com/Follow me on Twitter: https://twitter.com/EmmaAus27418832Check me out on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/loveemmaaustin/Subscribe to my newsletter for updates and free access to my Medium posts: https://emmaaustin.substack.com/p/welcome-to-my-newsletterFollow Mr. Austin on Twitter: https://twitter.com/MisterAustin1Business or other inquiries: mister.j.austin@gmail.com*** Music from https://filmmusic.io"Deadly Roulette" by Kevin MacLeod (https://incompetech.com)License: CC BY (http://creatiSupport the show