How to start over...so many of us area having to do this ... how can we do this. Often change can be so hard and starting afresh, yet it open amazing opportunities. We both have had to start afresh many times, in several countries. What are the gifts and what are the challenges, and how can we work with it. When we realize something is over look at the situation and ask, where do I want to be, what do I want to do? How to trust in "things are going to be fine." Reach out and find what assistance is there...there is almost always assistance in your area.