Topics: Divorce, Getting Unstuck, Separation, Verbal Abuse, Physical Abuse, Parenting, Blended Families, Teens, Forgiveness, Shame Hosts: Brian Perez, JJ West, Dr. Jill Hubbard Caller Questions & More: JJ discusses houses, like people, that look the same on the outside until the storm comes and you find out if they were built on firm foundation or sand.  After 44yrs of marriage, my wife served me divorce papers; how do I move on?  I separated from my abusive husband for 4yrs, and he wants to come back; should I trust him?  My husband is more of a friend than a father and needs to teach his 15yo son to be respectful to women.