If you're ready to create the sex of your wildest dreams, just by talking about it, this episode is for you. We are joined by Vanessa and Xander Marin -- New York Times Best Selling authors Vanessa and Xander Marin. She's a sex therapist with 20 years of experience, he's a regular dude, and together they wrote Sex Talks: The Five Conversations That Will Transform Your Love Life. They're the shockingly open, slightly nerdy, and seriously funny couple you'll be calling your new besties in no time. They share the ups and downs in their relationship while giving you step-by-step techniques for improving yours. PARTNER SHOUTOUTS: If you're looking for your life partner, look no further. Decoding Success has partnered up with TAWKIFY to help you meet your one to bask in these beautiful, euphoric moments of intimacy with. Check them out here: https://bit.ly/tawkifyxdsp One way to optimize your intimacy is to ensure you're taking care of yourself by getting the best sleep possible. So, we've partnered up with PROPER SLEEP to help our community feel rested and recharged. 50% off all first-time orders here: https://bit.ly/getproperdsp CONNECT w/ VANESSA & XANDER: Want to keep up with Vanessa and Xander on social? Catch them here on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vanessaandxander/ Grab your copy of Sex Talks here: https://sextalksbook.com/ Keep up with Vanessa and Xander here on their website: https://vmtherapy.com/ ^ they have a ton of incredible freebies, courses, a rockin' podcast, and so much more there.