083 - Finding Purpose Through Pain with Theo Fleury
This is such and honest, vulnerable conversation with Theo Fleury.
If you're a hockey fan, you know who he is, and if you're not, well he was pretty big in the 90's in Calgary and made a huge impact with the Calgary Flames.
What we didn't know back then is that the fearless Fleury had a dark secret that was haunting him... a nightmare that started when he was 14 years old.
But through the long road of pain, Theo has emerged on the other side in the winning end, discovering his purpose and inspiring others to face their demons and overcome their hardships.
He is now a public speaker and has done close to 1000 talks, being in service to those who have faced abuse as he has.
In this interview Theo talks about:
5:30 - The story of Theo's abuse
6:30 - How he found hockey and how finding his unmet needs met on the ice kept him playing hockey
8:15 - How substances became his coping mechanism
9:25 - The point where Theo put a loaded gun into his mouth and how that was his turning point
11:00 - How the events of 2020 dropped Theo into a deep depression and why
15:30 - How the government is traumatizing an already traumatized society
16:30 - How Theo pulled himself out of his depression, re-found his motivation and the shifting of his path
20:00 - The incapacity of a traumatized population to think critically
21:45 - Why it took so long for Theo to publicly tell his story
26:45 - Theo's first speaking opportunity at a Canadian prison and the story he was told about his abuser and how he was finally able to detach from him
34:00 - The lessons Theo has learned working in the prison system
35:00 - The gift the indigenous community gave to Theo
38:00 - How he gave his life over to God as a willing participant
46:00 - The unresolved trauma epidemic that we call mental illness
48:35 - How healing is the greatest journey you can ever go on
49:30 - What Theo is up to now
52:00 - The best reason to put kids into sports
59:45 - Would Theo have changed anything in the past if he could?
1:02:00 - Tools that have helped him heal and tools for those struggling now
1:04:40 - The gift of being in service
1:08:00 - The influence that Theo's sobriety has had on his friends
1:21:00 - The importance of believing in a higher power to draw on more than yourself
1:23:00 - The 2 prayers that Theo has said daily for the entire period of his sobriety
1:26:30 - Theo's last words: Do one thing for your body, mind and spirit every day.
and so much more!
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Website: https://theofleury.life/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/theofleury14
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