GITRMM 46: Why What You Wear On the First Date Really Matters

What You’ll Hear In This Episode:

• How first date fashion can get in the way of making a connection with a man. 
• What you or your girlfriends may think is cool and sexy may be overwhelming for a man, especially at first. 
• What does a man think when he sees a woman that is overdressed? 
• When a woman is dressed like a movie character or Halloween costume, men don’t see the real “her”, but instead an image or facade. 
• How to embrace dressing with comfort and ease, but still look classic and classy. 
• Okay, but what if you have a strong sense of style and want to show it off? 
• Does how you dress really impact a man deciding to go on a second date with you? 
• It’s a sign of good self esteem to dress with taste and be understated. 
• Lisa and Benjamin’s Emotionally Naked 12 Week Course is all about authenticity and a step by step process of learning how to put your true self out there in every way, from your profile pictures to how you show up. 
• But wait, he’s putting in little to no effort in how HE shows up? That’s not fair! 
• A man wants a woman to be comfortable in her body. That’s a huge turn on.
• Benjamin shares the biggest turn ONs and OFFs when it comes to makeup, shoes, and showing some sexy skin. 

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Quotes:

• “If a man can’t get through that layer, he’s not going to call back for the second date because there is not that connection.” - Benjamin
• “It’s become more clear to me how important clothing and image is, and how that can completely draw someone in or turn someone completely off.” - Lisa 
• “Some women so badly want to make an impression that they hide behind the fashion and they’re afraid to show their real selves.” - Lisa 
• “We don’t necessarily want fireworks in the beginning, we want something to build from a  foundation of friendship, trust, and safety.” - Benjamin

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