When children are neglected and abused severely and when their primary care taking is disrupted, babies and children lose their ability to regulate their emptions and become easily dysregulated. As a result they may become hyper vigilante or start shutting down. This very disruptive form of parenting or lack thereof has severe conclusion on human emotional cognitive and physical development. Psychoeducation and prevention are key to making sure that parents can form strong healthy bonds with their children and repair reputed ones.