Here's the trouble! We assume all the responsibility either is God's or it's ours to get help, but it really is a complete combination of BOTH! Basically on God's part we find COMPLETE and TOTAL help from Him unconditionally, however on our part we let our feelings and previous experiences decide the time whe He will help us and we usually decide its NEVER NOW! We fill our minds with all kinds of reasons that seem to make sense ranging from "we are not good enough" for God to help or perhaps God doesn't want me to be helped to teach us some important lesson. Interesting though no one ever knows what the lesson is but we will say things like this because we think it makes spiritual sense and it does NOT. If we really and truly believed God intended for us to have troubles then why do we spend hours upon hours of trying to get help to get out of these same troubles? Honestly face the music here! Find in the Bible where someone had the same trouble you are facing and do what they did and then you'll get out of your trouble. You'll never find in the Bible where someone just "rolled over" and claim it was "God's will" for some problem and so they just did nothing! Nope! Stop the blame game and get on DEFENSE and count on Jesus to help you get out of whatever trouble you are in. His Name alone means "Savior" and His entire earthly ministry here was helping people get out of temporary problems. He already assured everyone of a heavenly home someday after we die. Think the Bible through. His own mother asked Him to fix the "wine shortage" at a simple wedding and she KNEW he would even when He obviously said "IT WASN'T HIS TIME YET". Oh what miracles we lose because we keep telling God what He cant do!!!! Stop doing that!!!! Start trusting Jesus for every little problem and recieve your HELP TODAY! What will happen is you'll find your IMMEDIATE help and then no one can stop you from telling every one that Jesus did it for you!!!! This is how we spread the Gospel! Tell others what Jesus has done for YOU! Remember you'll get persecuted by some on our side that won't like it that you trust Jesus so much, but don't worry they need to be doing the same and when they see you do it they will stop complaining too and join you in the ABUNDANT LIFE Jesus so freely has given to all of us! Praise the Lord!