GITRMM ep 13: You’re Talking, But What is He Hearing?

Episode • Nov 16, 2021 • 49m

What You’ll Hear In This Episode:

Women’s goal is to connect emotionally, but what do we typically do that ends up getting us the opposite results?
What makes a man feel like he is being interviewed?
How do we accidentally shame a man, and what are ways we can keep it playful and lighthearted instead?
What does a man really think when we go off topic, monologue, or lecture?
Instead of focusing on being “on”, focus on creating a safe space for him to unwind and really be himself.
Why you should embrace the moments of silence on a date, not panic and try to fill space.
Dating should not feel like you are seeing a therapist.
If a man is interrupted enough times, he just begins to shut down. Are you cutting him off without knowing?

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Quotes

“When a woman goes too much off-topic, the man begins his own internal dialogue.” - Benjamin
“What the man is looking for is a way to relate to a woman in a way that he can’t relate to other men.” - Benjamin
“Women should ask, am I really creating a safe space for a man to open up to me?” - Lisa
“Two people that aren’t present, it’s almost like two holograms rather than two people becoming fulfilled.” - Lisa
“Both people feel they need to be “on” and it can lead to things that aren’t a real conversation.” - Lisa

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