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#166 | How Choosing Love and Courage Can Help LGBTQ Allies Mother the World for Change

More Human More Kind: Guidance for Parenting LGBTQ+ Teens & Growing Into a Courageous Ally
More Human More Kind: Guidance for Parenting LGBTQ+ Teens & Growing Into a Courageous Ally
Episode • May 30 • 5m

In the final chapter of our Friday reflection series, host Heather Hester delves into the concept of 'mothering the world,' a notion that encourages us to extend our caring instincts to a broader societal context. This episode posits that true mothering transcends familial boundaries, emphasizing the importance of offering compassion to the collective. She confronts the pressing issues of our time—rising injustices, systemic discrimination, and the erosion of democratic ideals—while inviting listeners to respond with love and action. The conversation is particularly aimed at individuals who bear the emotional weight of societal challenges, urging them to choose compassion in the face of fear and despair.

Throughout our conversation, Heather reflects on the profound emotional journeys experienced this year, characterized by a reckoning with political and social realities. The episode serves as a reminder that mothering the world involves not only advocating for those who cannot speak for themselves but also creating inclusive spaces where everyone feels safe and valued. She emphasizes the need for alignment with one’s values and the importance of nurturing with intention, rather than seeking to 'fix' all problems. It is about recognizing that each individual can contribute to a collective movement of kindness and support.

As she concludes this reflective series, she invites listeners to ponder what stirs their hearts and to consider the small yet courageous actions they can take in response. Mothering the world requires us to act from a place of love, ensuring that our efforts are grounded and sufficient. This episode encapsulates a call to continue nurturing both ourselves and one another, reinforcing the notion that through shared compassion and courage, we can indeed make a meaningful difference in our world.

Takeaways:

  • The essence of mothering the world involves extending compassion towards others in need.
  • To mother the world is to act from love and to recognize humanity in everyone.
  • Being part of a movement for positive change requires alignment with one’s core values.
  • One must choose moments of rest and reflection amidst the demands of activism and care.

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At the heart of my work is a deep commitment to compassion, authenticity, and transformative allyship, especially for those navigating the complexities of parenting LGBTQ+ kids. Through this podcast, speaking, my writing, and the spaces I create, I help people unlearn bias, embrace their full humanity, and foster courageous, compassionate connection.

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More Human. More Kind. formerly Just Breathe: Parenting Your LGBTQ Teen explores connection, courage, and community for every concerned parent, mom, or ally navigating fear, grief, and bigotry with hope, resilience, and empathy. Through open-minded education, inclusive parenting guidance, and advocacy for mental health and safety, we support LGBTQ youth and stand for human rights and social justice. More Human. More Kind. empowers listeners to shift their mindset, embrace activism and allyship, and lead with kindness, healing, and purpose.



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