1. The truth about how “good sex” is defined and how it affects women.

2. How to make sex a freeing and fulfilling experience instead of avoiding it.

3. Why trying to make your marriage “fair” can be an almost impossible challenge.

4. How one-sided sex can affect a relationship in the long run and what to do about it.

5. Jenn’s surprising discovery about how her personal values weren’t showing up in the bedroom.

6. Honest details about Janna and Jenn’s real-life sexual experiences

*Please note that this conversation includes real experiences that are sometimes traumatic in nature. This may be triggering for some listeners.

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Jenn (she/her) is an amazing, fabulous, human being. She is a warrior of justice and women’s rights. After completing my Wanting It More program, she has become a fierce leader and small group facilitator in my alumni community. She has been married for 9 years and has 3 young children. Jenn works in Environmental Conservation.

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Janna's Program: Wanting It More

Burnout by Emily Nagoski and Amelia Nagoski, who coined the term "Human Giver Syndrome" based on the book Down Girl: the Logic of Misogyny by Kate Manne

Come as You Are  by Emily Nagoski

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