On this episode we chat with Kim Smith about the challenges that parents face with raising teens today, how to deal with their access to technology, and we explore why kids are less interested in getting their driver’s license now. She is the founder of the ministry Beautifully Broken and author of Beautifully Broken: Forged through Fire, Up from Ashes, as well as the nonprofit she started with her best friend dedicated to kids and teens struggling with their own or a family member’s addiction. 

The challenges parents face raising teens today

It is important to give grace to others, yourself, and your kids – it is okay to make mistakes and giving grace will help you and your kids face whatever challenges arise. Kim recommends taking the time to really listen to your kids and to ensure that your kids feel safe coming to you and trust that you will be there for them, as well as setting boundaries. You should focus on and celebrate the good, while staving the bad, which kids get enough of from social media and their peers.

Teens and technology

Today’s technology presents new challenges to the parents of teens; Kim recommends that you take charge and have access to social media passwords and texts, and that you monitor your teen’s phone use. Parental control apps, such as Circle, can help limit kids’ internet and social media access. She also suggests it is important to give your kids a way out – using a phone tracking system or drug testing gives your kid a reason to turn down a friend if they are being asked to go somewhere or do something that they don’t want to do.

Depression, anxiety, and suicide

Teens can be very vulnerable to the effects of social media, and it is important that they have time away from their devices, especially at night. Make sure you know what is going on in your kids’ lives and watch for warning signs such as changes in their eating habits, sleep patterns, and grades, and if you notice anything, act on it. If something is awry, the school, or district, often has a department run by a therapist or psychiatrist who can direct you to the best resources in your community for counseling or support groups.

Why kids today aren't as interested in getting their driver's license

Kids seem to be more comfortable staying at home, perhaps due to a lack of mobility, exposure, and getting out. Encouraging your kids to stay active outside and maintaining some structured responsibility is critical for helping your child prepare for when they transition to adulthood and leave the house.

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