When Parents Aren't Getting Along - When Relationships Impact Family
Episode 192 - When Parents Aren't Getting Along - When Relationships Impact Family
4 Key Points for Dads: "When Parents Aren’t Getting Along – When Relationships Impact Family"
Acknowledge What Kids See and Feel
Children are deeply sensitive to tension and arguments between parents—even when you think you’re hiding it. Recognize that your kids notice changes in tone, body language, and distance. It’s important to reassure them that both parents still love them and the issues are not their fault.
Model Healthy Conflict and Respect
Disagreements are a normal part of any relationship, but how you handle conflict teaches your children crucial lessons. Aim to demonstrate respect, self-control, and active listening. Avoid insulting, yelling, or putting each other down, especially in front of your children. Showing that you can disagree and resolve issues maturely sets a lifelong example.
Prioritize Open Communication
Be proactive in talking to your partner about challenges rather than letting resentment build. Also, talk with your kids in an age-appropriate way: let them know families sometimes have tough moments, but working together as a team is important. Open communication supports a sense of safety and stability for everyone in the household.
Protect the Parent-Child Relationship
Never use your relationship struggles as a reason to involve children in adult concerns or to undermine your partner as a parent. Commit to supporting each other’s roles with your kids. Children benefit most when they see that, even in hard times, both parents remain invested in their wellbeing and daily lives.
Encouragement to Dads:
Being honest about difficulties, while working towards a respectful atmosphere, gives your children security and valuable coping skills. Family challenges are real, but with intentionality, dads can contribute to resilience and healing for everyone.
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