If you listened to my interview with artist John Lee Bird about his days working at Crash you might remember a few mentions of his flatmate, who was... shall we say... exposed to some salubrious shenanigans whilst hanging out with John.

Well, I've been nagging for a while, and finally got John's flatmate, Ros, on the show to share some of her story!

We started talking about different venues and nights in London in the early 00s, but the conversation really became about the importance of their relationship - a gay man and a straight woman - and also the importance of safe spaces and communities when you're on the journey of becoming who you are...