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#312 | The REAL Reason This Dad Started Training Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu In Iowa - Parenting, Marriage & Mental Health Support For Dads

Dad's Mental Health
Dad's Mental Health
Episode • Apr 7 • 35m

In this episode, I'll reveal the real reason my guest started training Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu in Iowa.

Find out how this martial art can truly change your life for the better!

🎥 In this BJJ podcast episode, I'm joined by Brett, a dedicated Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu practitioner and fellow dad over 40, from Iowa, USA.

We discuss why Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu is one of the best martial arts for men in their 40s and beyond, especially for dads seeking fitness, mental health, and community.

Brett shares his inspiring journey—training BJJ for several years, taking a long break due to life and injuries, and then passionately returning to the mats.

If you're a dad over 40 thinking about starting BJJ or returning to it after a break, this episode offers valuable insights into why Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu is so addictive and beneficial.

We discuss how BJJ boosts mental toughness, ego management, and physical longevity.

You'll learn why BJJ is called "human chess," offering mental challenges and strategic thinking similar to golf, and how training partners play a crucial role in your journey.

We also touch on why BJJ is ideal for older men: patience, a supportive community, and the endless puzzle-like challenge that keeps it fresh and exciting.

Brett shares honest thoughts on surviving tough rolls, setting realistic goals, and balancing training with family life.

Whether you're a white belt or seasoned brown belt, this episode highlights how Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu can dramatically improve your mental health, physical health, and overall quality of life—no matter your age.

🔑 Key Topics Covered:

Benefits of Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu for men over 40

Managing ego and expectations on the mats

Returning to BJJ after a long break

Why BJJ is perfect for dads and older beginners

The importance of choosing the right training partners

Mental health benefits and overcoming challenges through BJJ

BJJ vs. other martial arts (Karate, Taekwondo, Boxing)

Practical self-defense skills learned through Jiu-Jitsu

👉 Who Should Watch This?

Dads and older men starting BJJ

Experienced practitioners returning after a layoff

Anyone seeking inspiration for lifelong fitness and mental resilience through Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu

🥋 Join the community of dads transforming their lives through BJJ. Like, subscribe, and leave a comment sharing your own BJJ journey!

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