Today I welcome Holley Gerth, who advocates for pursuing hope in the midst of pain and grief. We need to recognize the need to grieve losses, big and small – including losses of our dreams, and losses in relationships. Peace stems from surrendering to God's will, rather than fixating on specific outcomes. So, we ask: how do we transition from controlling outcomes, to finding peace in God? We discuss the pivotal role of faith in understanding and working through the pain and unmet expectations in life. How do we navigate the process of transitioning from a broken narrative to a new story under the guidance of God?

Holley shares five profound questions aimed at advancing the healing process, focusing on identifying and challenging the lies believed, embracing the truth that God desires to instill, and crafting a new life narrative infused with hope and grace. This approach offers a roadmap to find peace and healing in the midst of our struggles. Additionally, we acknowledge the significance of acknowledging and grieving everyday, smaller griefs, emphasizing the human need to surrender and find solace in God during these moments.

Holley offers a brand new course on overcoming heartache, tailored for anyone struggling with grief, and those supporting others through similar experiences. The course particularly resonates with individuals facing relational grief, offering practical guidance to navigate the journey from hurt to healing, drawing from Holley’s personal experiences with trust issues and subsequent healing. This highlights the transformative power of pain and the potential to become healers ourselves, a concept that can bring hope to many navigating their own healing journeys. If you are interested in this course, remember to sign up for the Gospel Spice newsletter to receive an exclusive 25% discount code on this course at https://www.gospelspice.com/signup

We want you to remember this in your grief: amidst the struggles of pain and grief, there lies an opportunity to find lasting peace in surrendering to God's will.

BONUS | FIVE QUESTIONS TO PROGRESS TOWARDS HEALING

Holley provides a roadmap for healing through these 5 questions:

1.     What lies have I believed?

2.     What truth does God want to replace them with?

3.     What is the new story that God has for me?

4.     What unmet desires and expectations do I need to address and grieve?

5.     How can I surrender these to God and find peace in His plan?

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You are invited to join us on the Gospel Spice Prayer Bible Study, titled "The heart behind prayer" starting September 20, 2025! Details and registration here: https://www.gospelspice.com/prayer 

There are a few things in our Christian life that we know we should do more, or at least better – and prayer just might top the list. Prayer is a mystery. Why would a conversation with a human have any influence on God’s eternal, sovereign plan? It defies logic, and beckons love. How can God, the Almighty Lord of Hosts, be this close, this personal? It defies understanding, and beckons involvement.

But, lack of time, inspiration, and discipline, combined with the ruthless tyranny of our busy lives, push prayer to the periphery, to the “one day I’ll get to it” pile. And yet, we can excel at what we endeavor to undertake. So, why isn’t prayer more of a spiritual priority? Could we develop a mindset around prayer that made it attractive, inspiring, even maybe delightful? What if we attuned our spiritual ears to listen to God, and our spiritual eyes to see His provision?

As an unassuming student, I’m going to humbly offer to share the little I have learned from others about the joy of prayer. I will give us theology, practical tips, and useful resources, sharing what works for me as we, together, learn to pray.

If you find prayer intimidating, or if your lack of prayer makes you feel guilty or “less than,” then this is the place for you! If you have been a student of prayer for many years, this is the place for you too! If you have breath in your lungs, then prayer can become one of the deepest joys of your day. Don’t miss out!

A PERSPECTIVE ABOUT PRAYER

To pray is to believe that God not only hears, but that He responds. It is to stand in the gap for a broken world, wielding the authority of Christ, empowered by the Spirit, and trusting in the goodness of the Father. The question is not whether prayer works, but whether we are willing to pray the kinds of prayers that invite God’s Kingdom into the darkest places of the earth—and of our own hearts.

We may never fully understand the mechanics of prayer, or how it intersects with God's sovereignty, but we are not called to understand everything. We are called to be faithful. And faithfulness means showing up—in prayer, in persistence, in expectation.

So today, let us pray not only for the comfort of our hearts, but for the transformation of the world. Let us take our place as image-bearers, co-laborers, and co-heirs. Let us believe that God is still listening—and still acting. Because He is.

There’s only one way to find out what might happen when we truly pray like this.

Let’s begin.

THE MINDSET BEHIND THIS COURSE

Before we begin, let me tell you the obvious: I don’t really know how to pray. I’m a humble student and absolute beginner at the holy endeavor that is prayer. So, this course isn’t really about what I’ve learned, or any wisdom I might have gathered. But, I’ve sat at the feet of many prayer warriors over the decades, through books and teachings.

So, I’ll share what I learned from them. Humility is going to be our primary heart posture! With each lesson, I will offer a few thoughts, practices, and ideas – with much humility, and not taking myself too seriously. I will also share her favorite books and resources about prayer. FInally, I will introduce you to some of the most influential prayer warriors of our history as the Body of Christ.

Most importantly, I will invite YOU to pray! Learning to pray comes from praying. Our humble ambition is to inspire you to pray, and to give you a few tips on how to do that. Then, it’s up to you! Prayer is a lifelong endeavor. Let’s make it delightful together!

So, let’s get started.

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