Valentines Day. The last of the stressful holidays. How do we enjoy the holidays? When we feel as if we need a day or a holiday to be a certain way we can struggle with the way it is. This happens because we want to feel a certain way. How can we get that feeling ourselves. How can we fill ourselves and discover how to find the feeling we are looking for... how can we accept how things are, be thankful for what is and yet be able to express our needs. Holidays are wonderful or terrible times, depending upon our expectations and what happens that does or doesn't fill these expectations.