Have you ever had someone try to coax you out of the closet by asking the seemingly innocent question 'is there anything you want to tell me?'? 

Do you remember the anguish and pain of simply muttering the 3 or 4 words needed to just confirm their suspicions? 

Well, if you have, I have a feeling you'll love this week's episode. 

I'm talking to comedy writer and actor Lisa Haas about her very first trip to the lesbian bar Three Sisters in Denver, Colorado in the 80s. 

We talk about how depressing a lesbian bar can be on Christmas eve, the awkwardness of coming out support groups, and what signal your sister might be trying to send you when she offers to buy you a plaid shirt! 

Do you have any memories of Three Sisters, or clubbing from your own queer scene that you want to share? Well, if you have please get in touch - I want to create the biggest online record of people's memories and stories - go to www.lostspacespodcast.com and find the section 'Share a Lost Space' and tell me what you got up to! Bonus points for embarrassing photos!

You can also find me on Facebook (www.facebook.com/lostspacespod), Instagram (www.instagram.com/lostspacespod) and Twitter (www.twitter.com/lostspacespod)

Listen to Lisa's podcast 'IN HEAT: A Lesbian Comedy' wherever you stream podcasts, and follow her on Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/lisahaasactor/)